>>Hi Dan...
Check out the various threads around here on what to feed the R9 as this gun can be ammo sensitive. Many folks, myself included, carry .115gr Speer GDHP...however recently there has been some positive discussion about various frangible ammo.
I have rather large hands and I have never been pinched by the R9. However, this gun will definately teach you how it likes to be held...or you will be hurting after more than a mag or so.
I have several holsters for my R9...and for the money I have to tell you - this guy RJ Hedley (see one or two posts above) makes several mighty fine, fine, super fine beddings for this gun. I generally wear shorts, often with a vest, year round and I usually go with front pocket carry with pants or vest. I Believe it is RJ's "Limited Edition" for the R9 which has the extra leather flap for back pocket carry...which is removable for easy front pocket carry = nice piece of leatherwork, IMO...TW<<