I believe that God conceived our world as one of Planned Randomness, which is why bad things sometimes happen to good people. I also believe that in the randomness of events that even though He may not stop them from happening, God is open to the prayers and thoughts of we mortals who seek His help. I will pray for your wife's full recovery as you both emerge from the haze of what had to be a very dark time. Good luck, God Bless, and here's to hoping her recovery, and yours, is strong and vital. Welcome back!