Yes, R-9s are definitely being shipped -- don't fret about that.
$1,125 is ridiculous, charge what the market will bear, profiteering. Its the same guys that were selling Kel-Tec P-3ATs for $400...
I had the same situation when I bought my Chrysler PT Cruiser when they were first released. I could pay a $4k premium over full sticker price to get one on the lot, or order one and wait 4 months for the privilege of paying full sticker. I waited, but it was tough. Did I overpay for the car? Yes -- but I got enough fun and "wow" factor out of it to make up the difference.
If you will have the R-9 for the rest of your life (or even the next 10 years), the wait of another few weeks or even months will be insignificant. If you give up now, I tend to think you will regret it -- and then you will pay the higher price.
A Kahr is a fine gun, but it is NOT an R-9 by any means...
Sell your "trade" on-line. I have bought and sold a lot of guns this way, with no problem. Selling, particularly, is nearly risk free since you get the money up-front. Give it a try -- selling is much easier than buying.