Prydwen,
I totally understand your frustrations but keep in mind that this pistol is built on the cuttting edge of just how small and light your can build a pistol that handles a 9mm round and will work and not hurt your hand, etc, etc,. I am jealous of the reports from owners that seem to have no problems with Speer GDHP or Silvertips from their guns right out of the box. That has not been my experience and as you know I do have a round that functions 100% reliably but it keyholes at 15yds everytime(Aguila 65gr hollowpoint). UPS delivered another batch of ammo from two different sources today and I have some of the Win. Superclean 105 gr that has been recomended so the next range trip is another addition to the saga. If you have not kept up with the P-38 magazine floorplate possibility then you might consider it.
There are two scenarios, you can try to work thru your jam issues with info. from this board or you can pay the shipping and sent the gun back to the factory. The only thing is that the second option does not guarantee that you will get back a gun that "feeds everything no problems".
I also agree with you and when I got my first R9, geez these mag springs seem kind of weak. I can assure you that if the jamming problems were due to this only, it would have been remedied long ago so I am going to say that the mag springs are not the problem. This has sort of been verified by some people haveing jam problems with the 3rd or 4th round in the mag but not the 1st or 2nd or the 5th or 6th.
But anyway, I am with you in the dissapointment that your gun does not function perfectly right out of the box. You and me ain't the first.
I would say that if an R9 doesn't function with 115 gr GDHP or 115gr Silvertips then send it back to the factory as DEFECTIVE. I have not done that yet as I am a stuborn tinkerer and will find a solution if I can and send them back to the factory as a last resort.
Stick with it. When you run 3 jam free mags through the R9 it is a thing of beauty and very satisfying.
My opinions only, Mike