damn it.  I was ready to order a silver, sighted model.  Besides who wants a finish that can scatch, scuff, or otherwise wear off in a carry holster.  I don't know what i'm going to do now.  I'm not too thrilled about compromising on a $900 gun. Maybe I'll just get a PM9 or 3AT.  
Nah, the grey has grown on me.  I defenetly think it looks better just more likely to show wear and tear.  I can't wait to get mine.  Thanks Eric.