>>Jim...
I hear you about second wives being more understanding than first ones about personal purchases... That has been
my experience as well, but why is it that way...
My first wife would have wanted a gift of her own to at least match the one I got for myself. She might even have tried to take my own gift away from me.
My second wife is actually
happy for me when I find something I would like to have for myself and buy it... Which in turn, makes me want to do nice things for her beyond measure. Funny how that works. If only there was some way for a first wife to learn from the second...in which case there might not be any need for the second wife...!!! Such a quandry... Hmmmmmmm...TW